u/Dry-Monitor4373

I’m a bit confused about my sexuality and wanted to hear if anyone else relates. I’ve hooked up with a few guys (met on Grindr), and I genuinely enjoy the physical side—giving oral and getting fucked. But when it comes to anything romantic, I can’t picture myself being in love with a man or having a boyfriend. At the same time, I have a crush on a girl and can definitely see myself in a relationship with a woman. What makes it more confusing is that I feel like I’m mainly attracted to dick itself, regardless of whether it’s a guy or a trans person—it feels more physical than emotional.

So I’m not sure how to label this, or if I even need to. Has anyone else experienced something similar?