u/Dry-Map-7715

hi, so im a 20 year old guy from germany and was wondering how to find a girl to have sex with? ive been trying to approach women but they only reject me. i do cold approaches and im on dating apps but even if i get a match they dont wanna meetup with me or ghost me after talking to me for a couple. also i figured the majority of women want to have an emotional bond before engaging in intimacy. i cant understand this. i wouldnt need to be emotionally connected to a person. in fact, i dont even want to form a connection. dont how so many people even got into a relationship. seems like everyone just wants to be on their own