For those with siblings...do they figure it out on their own?
I made the decision to not directly tell my sister the uBPD Mom conclusion my therapist and I came to. We're fairly close and it pains me that she's so deep in enmeshment/FOG, but it feels like she's getting closer to the root of the problem.
Sometimes I hear what are surely my mother's opinions from her. Recently she's been realizing that our parents relationship and communication dynamics were not "normal". Part of me wants to scream, "it's because mom is uBPD!!" However, I worry that if I do, it will be said to uBPD Mom and that would upset the delicate balance of LC and boundaries I've built since moving far, far away.
Has anyone successfully had this conversation with a sibling?
u/Dry-Cauliflower3442 — 6 days ago