I have been sinning & I just found out Im pregnant with my now fiancé. I would like to be married as soon as possible and not wait the 6 ish months of classes and prep.
There are a few issues at play, I guess:
- I am catholic but he isnt anything at all (just spiritual)
- I want to be married as soon as possible. I want to have a small wedding before I start to show.
- I love my priest & would love for him to marry us but I am kind of ashamed to tell him I am pregnant out of wedlock (until we are married atleast)
- would the church marry us faster if they knew I was pregnant? Or would they kind of shun me? I know it is a blessing but I never intended for this to happen before marriage & I feel a little bit ashamed
- I really dont want to get married civilly and just having a convalidation ceremony but Im wondering if that would be faster
Thank you in advanced for your advice!