AITH: we’re potty training toddler, wife skipped brunch w visiting family
Rather simple:
My brother and sister in law were in town visiting (plane flight level trip), incidentally for a conference. They were here multiple days and wanted one dinner and one brunch out to see my daughter, their niece.
Problem: for various reasons, my wife scheduled potty training that weekend a month ago. Mainly because toddler needs to be ready before a summer camp. Sorta “had” to be done then. And it’s the pants-less method she went with.
So I compromised on dinner: we hosted. But wife wanted that to be it. Not also hosting brunch the next morning.
So she made no attempt to compromise any of the potty training and wholly skipped brunch. I went to downtown to see my family at brunch instead, without wife and toddler. The reason was the potty training.
SIL took this as an insult and thought she should’ve come and the excuse wasn’t sufficient. Beforehand I was already on “just suspend one morning for it”. Now it’s a whole family annoying gossip because SIL tattled to my mom about this and now I’m getting it from my mom. Ugh.
AITH for thinking she should’ve just suspended this potty training for the one morning and go to brunch?