u/DoubleAstronomer7430

i know the group description says not to be picky, but i'm really tired of guys trying to hook up with me or hit on me. i'm not meeting up with randos online. i'm not sending u pics or sleep on a call with u or any of that. if ur going to be like that, please, please, just block me or i'll block u. the whole pretending to be friends and then asking for more later don't work on me. i've talked to hundreds of men at this point. i know pretty much all the tricks.

just don't be pushy, lovebombing, creepy or weird or preachy. i'm not here to listen to u rant about how i should live my life or how my depression is just a joke or how it's just in my head or how it'll get better. i really don't have the patience for that. if u start preaching, i will block u.

i just wanna talk about video games. like positive things. positive memories. positive experiences with video games. tell me ur positive experiences. not here to relive my trauma. thanks.

ummm i have depression, anxiety, and ptsd so kinda picky who i talk to? see my pinned post for my triggers. if ur picky, rude, mean, preachy, pushy, creepy, weird just skip me, thanks. someone else can talk to me. it's nbd. idc. not here to talk about my problems. just want good news to cheer me up. like what ur eating or what ur playing. thankss.

ummm i have depression, anxiety, and ptsd so kinda picky who i talk to? see my pinned post for my triggers. if ur picky, rude, mean, preachy, pushy, creepy, weird just skip me, thanks. someone else can talk to me. it's nbd. idc.

ummm i have depression, anxiety, and ptsd so kinda picky who i talk to? see my pinned post for my triggers. if ur picky, rude, mean, preachy, pushy, creepy, weird just skip me, thanks. someone else can talk to me. it's nbd. idc.

ummm i have depression, anxiety, and ptsd so kinda picky who i talk to? see my pinned post for my triggers. if ur picky, rude, mean, preachy, pushy, creepy, weird just skip me, thanks. someone else can talk to me. it's nbd. idc.

ummm i have depression, anxiety, and ptsd so kinda picky who i talk to? see my pinned post for my triggers. if ur picky, rude, mean, preachy, pushy, creepy, weird just skip me, thanks. someone else can talk to me. it's nbd. idc.

ummm i have depression, anxiety, and ptsd so kinda picky who i talk to? see my pinned post for my triggers. if ur picky, rude, mean, preachy, pushy, creepy, weird just skip me, thanks. someone else can talk to me. it's nbd. idc.

ummm i have depression, anxiety, and ptsd so kinda picky who i talk to? see my pinned post for my triggers. if ur picky, rude, mean, preachy, pushy, creepy, weird just skip me, thanks. someone else can talk to me. it's nbd. idc.

ummm i have depression, anxiety, and ptsd so kinda picky who i talk to? see my pinned post for my triggers. if ur picky, rude, mean, preachy, pushy, creepy, weird just skip me, thanks. someone else can talk to me. it's nbd. idc.

ummm i have depression, anxiety, and ptsd so kinda picky who i talk to? see my pinned post for my triggers. if ur picky, rude, mean, preachy, pushy, creepy, weird just skip me, thanks. someone else can talk to me. it's nbd. idc.

ummm i have depression, anxiety, and ptsd so kinda picky who i talk to? see my pinned post for my triggers. if ur picky, rude, mean, preachy, pushy, creepy, weird just skip me, thanks. someone else can talk to me. it's nbd. idc.

me

• just want a friend I can randomly text about PC games and can respect boundaries and isn't creepy, weird, pushy, mean, clingy, controlling, possessive, cringe, sarcastic, rude, or preachy
• depressed, HELLA ANXIOUS so don't be creepy or weird pls, ptsd, autistic, ocd
• hella dry convo skills (pls don't message me and then complain that i'm too dry when I already told u so)
• i'm only interested in offline pc games. not interested in warframe, valorant, piracy, emulation, consoles, mobile, or epic game store
• NOT UR MANIC PIXIE GIRL
• i don't reply to "dm me" comments for obv reasons

i don't like

• manic people (they scare me)
• question after question like i'm being interrogated (it's bad for my anxiety)
• non-gamers (games are my fixation)
• unsolicited comments or advice about my body or mental/physical health
• NO CALLS (or voice messages. i won't listen to them and i'll just block u)
• NO SELFIES (stop sending me pics of urself. i don't wanna see them)
• weird or creepy
• pushy or preachy
• hugging, touching (even virtual ones)
• controlling, clingy, possessive
• cringe (sorry, makes me gag). don't call me twin. it's so cringe.
• too many emojis (especially the laugh/cry one, it's so cringe)
• text walls
• lovebombing (men keep asking me what it is; just look it up)
• homophobia/misogyny/bigotry/transphobia
• sarcasm or mean jokes
• toxic positivity
• boundary testers (including creepy jokes)

red flags

• "where do u live"
• "do u live alone"
• "i'm a nice guy"
• "wyll"
• "ur so interesting" "ur the most interesting i've ever talked to"
• "what's the most f'd up message you've ever gotten"
• "What's there to be depressed about"
• "it'll get better"
• "it's not that bad"
• "i'm a good listener. u can tell me anything"
• "i'm a playful dude"

considerations

• my inbox is full of men being weird or creepy so if u can't learn to respect women, ur not getting far. this includes men who are delulu and think they're the most respectful person but aren't.
• i get hate messages all the time (I have one pinned in my history) so i'm like not really phased at this point. it's like "thank u, next" yk?
• if any of this upsets u, pls just block me. it's so easy! so easy.

me

• just want a friend I can randomly text about PC games and can respect boundaries and isn't creepy, weird, pushy, mean, clingy, controlling, possessive, cringe, sarcastic, rude, or preachy
• depressed, HELLA ANXIOUS so don't be creepy or weird pls, ptsd, autistic, ocd
• hella dry convo skills (pls don't message me and then complain that i'm too dry when I already told u so)
• i'm only interested in offline pc games. not interested in warframe, valorant, piracy, emulation, consoles, mobile, or epic game store
• NOT UR MANIC PIXIE GIRL
• i don't reply to "dm me" comments for obv reasons

i don't like

• manic people (they scare me)
• question after question like i'm being interrogated (it's bad for my anxiety)
• non-gamers (games are my fixation)
• unsolicited comments or advice about my body, relationships, or mental/physical health
• NO CALLS (or voice messages. i won't listen to them and i'll just block u)
• NO SELFIES (stop sending me pics of urself. i don't wanna see them)
• weird or creepy
• pushy or preachy
• hugging, touching (even virtual ones)
• controlling, clingy, possessive
• cringe (sorry, makes me gag). don't call me twin. it's so cringe.
• too many emojis (especially the laugh/cry one, it's so cringe)
• text walls
• lovebombing (men keep asking me what it is; just look it up)
• homophobia/misogyny/bigotry/transphobia
• sarcasm or mean jokes
• toxic positivity
• boundary testers (including creepy jokes)

red flags

• "where do u live"
• "do u live alone"
• "i'm a nice guy"
• "wyll"
• "ur so interesting" "ur the most interesting i've ever talked to"
• "what's the most f'd up message you've ever gotten"
• "What's there to be depressed about"
• "it'll get better"
• "it's not that bad"
• "i'm a good listener. u can tell me anything"
• "i'm a playful dude"

considerations

• my inbox is full of men being weird or creepy so if u can't learn to respect women, ur not getting far. this includes men who are delulu and think they're the most respectful person but aren't.
• i get hate messages all the time (I have one pinned in my history) so i'm like not really phased at this point. it's like "thank u, next" yk?
• if any of this upsets u, pls just block me. it's so easy! so easy.

me

• just want a friend I can randomly text about PC games and can respect boundaries and isn't creepy, weird, pushy, mean, clingy, controlling, possessive, cringe, sarcastic, rude, or preachy
• depressed, HELLA ANXIOUS so don't be creepy or weird pls, ptsd, autistic, ocd
• hella dry convo skills (pls don't message me and then complain that i'm too dry when I already told u so)
• i'm only interested in offline pc games. not interested in warframe, valorant, piracy, emulation, consoles, mobile, or epic game store
• NOT UR MANIC PIXIE GIRL
• i don't reply to "dm me" comments for obv reasons

i don't like

• manic people (they scare me)
• question after question like i'm being interrogated (it's bad for my anxiety)
• non-gamers (games are my fixation)
• unsolicited comments or advice about my body, relationships, or mental/physical health
• NO CALLS (or voice messages. i won't listen to them and i'll just block u)
• NO SELFIES (stop sending me pics of urself. i don't wanna see them)
• weird or creepy
• pushy or preachy
• hugging, touching (even virtual ones)
• controlling, clingy, possessive
• cringe (sorry, makes me gag). don't call me twin. it's so cringe.
• too many emojis (especially the laugh/cry one, it's so cringe)
• text walls
• lovebombing (men keep asking me what it is; just look it up)
• homophobia/misogyny/bigotry/transphobia
• sarcasm or mean jokes
• toxic positivity
• boundary testers (including creepy jokes)

red flags

• "where do u live"
• "do u live alone"
• "i'm a nice guy"
• "wyll"
• "ur so interesting" "ur the most interesting i've ever talked to"
• "what's the most f'd up message you've ever gotten"
• "What's there to be depressed about"
• "it'll get better"
• "it's not that bad"
• "i'm a good listener. u can tell me anything"
• "i'm a playful dude"

considerations

• my inbox is full of men being weird or creepy so if u can't learn to respect women, ur not getting far. this includes men who are delulu and think they're the most respectful person but aren't.
• i get hate messages all the time (I have one pinned in my history) so i'm like not really phased at this point. it's like "thank u, next" yk?
• if any of this upsets u, pls just block me. it's so easy! so easy.

me

• just want a friend I can randomly text about PC games and can respect boundaries and isn't creepy, weird, pushy, mean, clingy, controlling, possessive, cringe, sarcastic, rude, or preachy
• depressed, HELLA ANXIOUS so don't be creepy or weird pls, ptsd, autistic, ocd
• hella dry convo skills (pls don't message me and then complain that i'm too dry when I already told u so)
• i'm only interested in offline pc games. not interested in warframe, valorant, piracy, emulation, consoles, mobile, or epic game store
• NOT UR MANIC PIXIE GIRL
• i don't reply to "dm me" comments for obv reasons

i don't like

• manic people (they scare me)
• question after question like i'm being interrogated (it's bad for my anxiety)
• non-gamers (games are my fixation)
• unsolicited comments or advice about my body, relationships, or mental/physical health
• NO CALLS (or voice messages. i won't listen to them and i'll just block u)
• NO SELFIES (stop sending me pics of urself. i don't wanna see them)
• weird or creepy
• pushy or preachy
• hugging, touching (even virtual ones)
• controlling, clingy, possessive
• cringe (sorry, makes me gag). don't call me twin. it's so cringe.
• too many emojis (especially the laugh/cry one, it's so cringe)
• text walls
• lovebombing (men keep asking me what it is; just look it up)
• homophobia/misogyny/bigotry/transphobia
• sarcasm or mean jokes
• toxic positivity
• boundary testers (including creepy jokes)

red flags

• "where do u live"
• "do u live alone"
• "i'm a nice guy"
• "wyll"
• "ur so interesting" "ur the most interesting i've ever talked to"
• "what's the most f'd up message you've ever gotten"
• "What's there to be depressed about"
• "it'll get better"
• "it's not that bad"
• "i'm a good listener. u can tell me anything"
• "i'm a playful dude"

considerations

• my inbox is full of men being weird or creepy so if u can't learn to respect women, ur not getting far. this includes men who are delulu and think they're the most respectful person but aren't.
• i get hate messages all the time (I have one pinned in my history) so i'm like not really phased at this point. it's like "thank u, next" yk?
• if any of this upsets u, pls just block me. it's so easy! so easy.

me

• just want a friend I can randomly text about PC games and can respect boundaries and isn't creepy, weird, pushy, mean, clingy, controlling, possessive, cringe, sarcastic, rude, or preachy
• depressed, HELLA ANXIOUS so don't be creepy or weird pls, ptsd, autistic, ocd
• hella dry convo skills (pls don't message me and then complain that i'm too dry when I already told u so)
• i'm only interested in offline pc games. not interested in warframe, valorant, piracy, emulation, consoles, mobile, or epic game store
• NOT UR MANIC PIXIE GIRL
• i don't reply to "dm me" comments for obv reasons

i don't like

• manic people (they scare me)
• question after question like i'm being interrogated (it's bad for my anxiety)
• non-gamers (games are my fixation)
• unsolicited comments or advice about my body, relationships, or mental/physical health
• NO CALLS (or voice messages. i won't listen to them and i'll just block u)
• NO SELFIES (stop sending me pics of urself. i don't wanna see them)
• weird or creepy
• pushy or preachy
• hugging, touching (even virtual ones)
• controlling, clingy, possessive
• cringe (sorry, makes me gag). don't call me twin. it's so cringe.
• too many emojis (especially the laugh/cry one, it's so cringe)
• text walls
• lovebombing (men keep asking me what it is; just look it up)
• homophobia/misogyny/bigotry/transphobia
• sarcasm or mean jokes
• toxic positivity
• boundary testers (including creepy jokes)

red flags

• "where do u live"
• "do u live alone"
• "i'm a nice guy"
• "wyll"
• "ur so interesting" "ur the most interesting i've ever talked to"
• "what's the most f'd up message you've ever gotten"
• "What's there to be depressed about"
• "it'll get better"
• "it's not that bad"
• "i'm a good listener. u can tell me anything"
• "i'm a playful dude"

considerations

• my inbox is full of men being weird or creepy so if u can't learn to respect women, ur not getting far. this includes men who are delulu and think they're the most respectful person but aren't.
• i get hate messages all the time (I have one pinned in my history) so i'm like not really phased at this point. it's like "thank u, next" yk?
• if any of this upsets u, pls just block me. it's so easy! so easy.

me

• just want a friend I can randomly text about PC games and can respect boundaries and isn't creepy, weird, pushy, mean, clingy, controlling, possessive, cringe, sarcastic, rude, or preachy
• depressed, HELLA ANXIOUS so don't be creepy or weird pls, ptsd, autistic, ocd
• hella dry convo skills (pls don't message me and then complain that i'm too dry when I already told u so)
• i'm only interested in offline pc games. not interested in warframe, valorant, piracy, emulation, consoles, mobile, or epic game store
• NOT UR MANIC PIXIE GIRL
• i don't reply to "dm me" comments for obv reasons

i don't like

• manic people (they scare me)
• question after question like i'm being interrogated (it's bad for my anxiety)
• non-gamers (games are my fixation)
• unsolicited comments or advice about my body, relationships, or mental/physical health
• NO CALLS (or voice messages. i won't listen to them and i'll just block u)
• NO SELFIES (stop sending me pics of urself. i don't wanna see them)
• weird or creepy
• pushy or preachy
• hugging, touching (even virtual ones)
• controlling, clingy, possessive
• cringe (sorry, makes me gag). don't call me twin. it's so cringe.
• too many emojis (especially the laugh/cry one, it's so cringe)
• text walls
• lovebombing (men keep asking me what it is; just look it up)
• homophobia/misogyny/bigotry/transphobia
• sarcasm or mean jokes
• toxic positivity
• boundary testers (including creepy jokes)

red flags

• "where do u live"
• "do u live alone"
• "i'm a nice guy"
• "wyll"
• "ur so interesting" "ur the most interesting i've ever talked to"
• "what's the most f'd up message you've ever gotten"
• "What's there to be depressed about"
• "it'll get better"
• "it's not that bad"
• "i'm a good listener. u can tell me anything"
• "i'm a playful dude"

considerations

• my inbox is full of men being weird or creepy so if u can't learn to respect women, ur not getting far. this includes men who are delulu and think they're the most respectful person but aren't.
• i get hate messages all the time (I have one pinned in my history) so i'm like not really phased at this point. it's like "thank u, next" yk?
• if any of this upsets u, pls just block me. it's so easy! so easy.

me

• just want a friend I can randomly text about PC games and can respect boundaries and isn't creepy, weird, pushy, mean, clingy, controlling, possessive, cringe, sarcastic, rude, or preachy
• depressed, HELLA ANXIOUS so don't be creepy or weird pls, ptsd, autistic, ocd
• hella dry convo skills (pls don't message me and then complain that i'm too dry when I already told u so)
• i'm only interested in offline pc games. not interested in warframe, valorant, piracy, emulation, consoles, mobile, or epic game store
• NOT UR MANIC PIXIE GIRL
• i don't reply to "dm me" comments for obv reasons

i don't like

• manic people (they scare me)
• question after question like i'm being interrogated (it's bad for my anxiety)
• non-gamers (games are my fixation)
• unsolicited comments or advice about my body, relationships, or mental/physical health
• NO CALLS (or voice messages. i won't listen to them and i'll just block u)
• NO SELFIES (stop sending me pics of urself. i don't wanna see them)
• weird or creepy
• pushy or preachy
• hugging, touching (even virtual ones)
• controlling, clingy, possessive
• cringe (sorry, makes me gag). don't call me twin. it's so cringe.
• too many emojis (especially the laugh/cry one, it's so cringe)
• text walls
• lovebombing (men keep asking me what it is; just look it up)
• homophobia/misogyny/bigotry/transphobia
• sarcasm or mean jokes
• toxic positivity
• boundary testers (including creepy jokes)

red flags

• "where do u live"
• "do u live alone"
• "i'm a nice guy"
• "wyll"
• "ur so interesting" "ur the most interesting i've ever talked to"
• "what's the most f'd up message you've ever gotten"
• "What's there to be depressed about"
• "it'll get better"
• "it's not that bad"
• "i'm a good listener. u can tell me anything"
• "i'm a playful dude"

considerations

• my inbox is full of men being weird or creepy so if u can't learn to respect women, ur not getting far. this includes men who are delulu and think they're the most respectful person but aren't.
• i get hate messages all the time (I have one pinned in my history) so i'm like not really phased at this point. it's like "thank u, next" yk?
• if any of this upsets u, pls just block me. it's so easy! so easy.

me

• depressed, anxious, ptsd, autistic, ocd, no bdd (yet)
• not interested in dating at all (pls don't be gross by trying to change my mind)
• just want a friend I can randomly text about video games and who can respect boundaries and isn't trying to be my therapist
• hella dry convo skills (pls don't talk to me if ur picky. i don't wanna hear more men complaining when i already said so)
• i'm only interested in offline pc games. not interested in warframe, valorant, piracy, emulation, consoles, mobile, or epic game store.

i don't like

• non gamers (games are my fixation)
• phone calls because voices make me cringe
• voice messages cuz men are weird
• selfies (don't ask any, don't send any, if u send any, i will block)
• weird or creepy comments
• hugs, touching (even virtual ones)
• talking about my body or urs (it's so weird when men flex their height)
• controlling, clingy, possessive
• cringe (sorry, makes me gag)
• too many emojis (especially the laugh/cry one, it's gross)
• text walls
• lovebombing (men keep asking me what it is; pls look it up urself)
• medical/psychiatric advice (ur not my licensed therapist)
• homophobia/misogyny/bigotry/transphobia
• sarcasm or mean jokes
• toxic positivity/emotional dismissiveness
• boundary testers (including creepy jokes)

red flags

• "where do u live"
• "do u live alone"
• "i'm a nice guy"
• "wyll"
• "ur so interesting" "ur the most interesting i've ever talked to"
• "what's the most f'd up message you've ever gotten"
• "What's there to be depressed about"
• "it'll get better"
• "it's not that bad"
• "i'm a good listener. u can tell me anything"
• "there's something wrong with u" (duh?)

me

• depressed, anxious, ptsd, autistic, ocd, no bdd (yet)
• not interested in dating at all (pls don't be gross by trying to change my mind)
• just want a friend I can randomly text about video games and who can respect boundaries and isn't trying to be my therapist
• hella dry convo skills (pls don't talk to me if ur picky. i don't wanna hear more men complaining when i already said so)
• i'm only interested in offline pc games. not interested in warframe, valorant, piracy, emulation, consoles, mobile, or epic game store.

i don't like

• non gamers (games are my fixation)
• phone calls because voices make me cringe
• voice messages cuz men are weird
• selfies (don't ask any, don't send any, if u send any, i will block)
• weird or creepy comments
• hugs, touching (even virtual ones)
• talking about my body or urs (it's so weird when men flex their height)
• controlling, clingy, possessive
• cringe (sorry, makes me gag)
• too many emojis (especially the laugh/cry one, it's gross)
• text walls
• lovebombing (men keep asking me what it is; pls look it up urself)
• medical/psychiatric advice (ur not my licensed therapist)
• homophobia/misogyny/bigotry/transphobia
• sarcasm or mean jokes
• toxic positivity/emotional dismissiveness
• boundary testers (including creepy jokes)

red flags

• "where do u live"
• "do u live alone"
• "i'm a nice guy"
• "wyll"
• "ur so interesting" "ur the most interesting i've ever talked to"
• "what's the most f'd up message you've ever gotten"
• "What's there to be depressed about"
• "it'll get better"
• "it's not that bad"
• "i'm a good listener. u can tell me anything"
• "there's something wrong with u" (duh?)