In these truly challenging times, also known as me being bored and slightly too aware of it, I come to you with a humble proposal… a conversation. just a bit of company to make the time pass in a more entertaining way. I’m up to talking about basically anything. Aaaand, as extra… incentive… here’s a cookie 🍪

Hey people i'm 18, i'm a guy, and i'm asexual, biromantic and i'm from London, England 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 .

Currently a university student.

My Hobbies include :

Running, watching TV shows & movies, cooking & baking , going on walks, playing chess, love to explore meaeuems, reading,i love writing, philosophy, space, and most importantly talking to people. In additon to this i love learning about sciences especially biology and physics, different cultures and religions, i also love table top games.

My Dislikes are rude and dry people.

Extra : im neurodivergent 🫠

Hello!

I don't have many friends at all. I figured trying to make friends online could be easy and fun. (So far not very easy)

I sorta just want motivation to keep going and it can be hard to find that alonee!

I also want to have a valid excuse to look at my phone and check my notifications in public.

I like retro videogames, movies, and pretty much everything vintage.

I collect vinyl, cds, and cassettes!

I think im just kinda geeky in general.

I guess dm or comment or something if you wanna b friends!

18M. I feel so lonely every day with zero IRL friends. My social skills are destroyed bcz of childhood traumas making it impossible to connect with anyone.

I'm super clingy and honestly desperate for someone who stays. I want daily texting, voice notes, sharing pop songs, cooking random stuff together, and just bedrotting while doomscrolling.

Looking for a genuine bro (18-24) for real mutual clinginess and consistent chatting. No ghosting please.

If you're lonely too and want the same, tell me your favorite pop song right now or what you ate today.

DMs open. I really need this.

Well, I’ve nearly wrapped up my work for the day, and my social calendar is as empty as a biscuit tin after a family gathering. So, I thought I’d post a little something here see if I can reel in a chat buddy or two. I’m a bit into a lot of different things, so I’m sure we can find a shared interest or two.

Hello, I go by Bea and I'm from the US. Recently, life has been knocking me around and I've had absolutely no social circle to speak of. Id love to meet some people who will stick around for awhile.

I enjoy gaming, reading, and writing. Horror and sci fi are my favorite genres, and my favorite animals are bats. I'd love to find someone to share weird videos or chat about like things. Feel free to dm, I don't bite.

I'm 33 m uk, looking for new friends, long term preferred but if you only want a quick chat it's cool. age or gender doesn't bother me, just leave your age, gender and location when you message, just so I know who I'm talking to please (I can't stress this enough)

Some of my interests are:

Gaming (ps5)

Wrestling

Sports (football, rugby, F1)

Cooking (I'm a chef)

Music (into most genres)

Tv and films

Reading

Nature

Animals

If you see anything we have in common, it you just want someone to rant to or chill with, send me a DM or leave a comment 🙂

https://www.reddit.com/r/Advice/comments/1sr55rp/comment/ohfwkvs/?context=1

https://www.reddit.com/r/school/comments/1sqrn73/feel_like_no_one_wants_to_be_my_friend/

Please check these 2 posts before you read!

The friend I'm talking about, he apparently was with his relative he knew for 7 years, he is known for being very naughty and loyal.

He was actively judging me for no reason and trying to sign out of my best friend, the computer.

I made him stop, my moving him away and then attacked me. Someone I knew saw it and didn't like that.

But there was a defensive comment. Yesterday I made comments saying I would ____ myself he won't be my friend and the head of year said he doesn't want to be your friend, then don't force him. Theoretically it is a past instance of him being mean to me and me being mean to him so I could be harshly punished.

His "loyal" friend signed out of my computer and liked it.

I even apologised and he got offended and rejected it.

"Make good friends." Said someone.

It's not easy to though, people don't like me and the damage is all done for how I acted, trying again seems impossible to even convince.

What can I do now?

33M UK introvert, struggling to make friends and would love someone to chat to

So since I've always struggled with social anxiety and generally being quite introverted, it feels like having friends now is a luxury I don't really have. I have a 'best friend' which I see one every couple months, and I'm lucky if they reply to me once a day. And it gets really hard when you've got no-one to share things or chat with.

Anyway I've been lonely for quite a while now, the past year has been the worst. So I'd love to meet new people and chat online, just about anything! Share random memes, struggles, achievements, or just talk about our day. Just whatever really!

I'd also like to be someone you can rely on for support, because I've been ghosted online so many times too, it's can really hammer confidence and self-esteem. Definitely let me know if you can relate, I know how it feels all too well, I like to think I'm quite compassionate and understanding that way

I have a few hobbies, not many though, but I'm really open and curious about what you're into.

I love gaming (story-based),

music (almost all genres),

photography (I love my DSLR),

anything tech related,

cars / car maintenance,

gym / workouts

TL:DR, if you're feeling lonely too and want someone to talk with, please DM or comment! Ideally UK - Lincoln or close, due to time-zone difference, but not a major issue :)

Please read my post before reaching out. I understand that my post is long; that’s because I explained my personality so you can understand me before talking to me and not say things like “we can try to be friends.” I took the time to explain my personality so people can be sure if they will actually be friends with me or not before even reaching out.

I’m very serious about making friends. I want to VC daily; I think it’s overall much more effective than texting. VC is important to me. I don’t ghost, and I hate ghosting. I get easily attached to people so it hurts when I get ghosted, and it’s usually for the dumbest reasons, so it’s very frustrating. Even if it’s not for a dumb reason, I still think that it’s morally wrong to ghost me. I can’t be held responsible for anything that I say because I have zero social skills, but at least I’m honest, right? Basically, what I'm asking for is to say whatever is on my mind without the fear of getting ghosted. I will offend you because people get offended so easily nowadays. I’m asking for people to focus on what I’m saying instead of worrying about how it sounds or how it makes them feel. Nowadays, the most common response people have when they feel offended is to just ghost, which I think is very childish. I’m asking for people to use their brains, think about what’s actually being said, and stop feeling offended.

Some of my interests are:

* Comics: I only read DC comics.

* Movies / Shows / Anime: Watching movies is my favorite thing to do. I love all genres except for sitcoms, war, western, documentary, true crime, and found footage. In anime, I mostly watch romance.

* WWE

* Video Games: 3rd-person single-player AAA games and fighting games. I’m on last gen, so I don't know much about the newer games. I don’t really play video games that much anymore, but I can talk about them.

I’m genuine, understanding, and thoughtful. I think I have a lot to offer, but just to be clear: I’m not here to entertain anyone. I’m not interested in talking to people who are bored. And I’m not interested in being used for emotional support. I don’t care about your relationship problems. Feel free to talk about anything else; I think hearing each other out is important. I’m not one of those people who complain about their struggles. I don’t think it’s okay to force people to listen to my problems. I will not talk about that unless you ask me, even though I think I have every right to complain, but I understand that people aren’t here for that.

Like I mentioned before, I hate putting in a lot of time and effort into building a friendship just to get ghosted. People need to stop being so sensitive and immature. I hate how easy it is for people to just leave me after a minor argument; it’s so stupid to me. I'm sorry if I talk a lot about ghosting, but people need to understand that this is not okay. It’s a heinous thing to do.

I should probably mention that I’m:

* Emotionally heavy: I’m not looking for a casual friendship. Don’t use me for your entertainment.

* Desperate: I don’t have a lot of time and my future is uncertain. This also means that I want a friendship that can progress fast. I don’t know how to explain this part, but I’m impatient and I’m in a really bad place right now.

* Needy but not clingy: Just because I don’t text you 24/7 doesn’t mean that I don’t care. I hate when people assume that I’m not interested in talking. If you have anything to say, then please tell me directly. I can’t read minds.

* Insecure: I have zero self-confidence and I’m insecure about literally everything.

* Self-pitying: It’s bad. I genuinely believe that God hates me.

* Deeply lonely and isolated.

* Can be overly serious sometimes: I’m not really a fun person, sorry about that. I can’t help that I’m severely depressed, so sorry if I don’t joke, understand jokes, use emojis, send memes, or keep up with TikTok trends. I wish I was fun, but I don't know how.

I don’t know how important this is, but I lack empathy. So I just need someone who’s willing to be my friend and accept me. I want someone who won't ghost me for any reason. I never did anything to deserve getting ghosted or blocked. Sure, I can say the wrong thing, but blocking is definitely an overreaction and makes you a bad person.

I want someone who’s rational. Anyway, you probably think that I’m asking for a lot, but I’m really not. I also have social anxiety, depression, and autism. We have to have things in common so we never run out of things to talk about, because that’s usually what happens.

Anyways, please have decent English; I’m really not asking for much. Please be 18+.

19M, no one to talk about music, cinema, philosophy, history etc... very lonely recently and fed up with NT communication. Hit up if you are interested

I'm someone who struggles with anxiety and depression. I also have a hard time being closer than just acquaintances with people.

I like to read books, manga (webtoons), play video games, lift weights, run, music and probably more. I've been pretty good at keeping myself entertained but I am tired of being alone.

I'll literally talk about whatever, so even if you don't share any of the same interests as me, you can tell me about yours. I'm in the CST timezone so if I don't respond I might be working or sleeping lol.