AIO for being really hurt that my stbx wife told them before me an caused them to be dishonset
Ok Reddit need some help here
So my stbx wife and I are separated but still sharing our house for the time being, I know its over and accept it, in truth I'm a little relieved as I wasn't happy either.
The issue or question here arises from the fact that a few days ago she told our kids that she was already seeing someone and told them not to tell me as she would when the time was right, she went away for a few days (seeing him i guess) then told me when she returned.
I wasn't really surprised that she had found someone but its that she made the kids complicit in hiding it from me and it feels like then have sided with her by keeping that secret I'm hurt by this but more angry that after decades of being a loyal partner (I accept not good enough to maintain the marriage) she is playing these games AIO?