Was i sexually assaulted by my partner???
Me and my partner grew up together online, we were friends for 5 years before we eventually started dating 2 years ago. They know im asexual, always has, and they also know that im not only replused by the idea but also scared of the idea. Their hypersexual due to trauma, so our relationship has always been rough but we usually figured out how to sort it.
2 weeks ago my partner came down to my state to stay with me for 2 weeks. It was going alright for the first 3 days besides them pushing for me to become quickly comfortable with kissing and such despite me being uncomfortable with it, but eventually i got over it. I thought we were fine by then, but i started to notice that their hands would almost roam when we cuddled. I brought this up to them and they said they cant help it and that their sorry.
On the 5th day, we were cuddling and they put their hand under my bra, and they were originally gripping my inner thigh which was okay but their hand roamed lower and lower until their thumb was repeatedly and purposefully rubbing on my clothed crotch. I froze, and was frozen like that for like 5 minutes until i rushed off. I didnt say no, i didnt say yes, i didnt say anything. I feel guilty and like its not their fault because i didnt say no. I brought this up to my friends and they told me i was sexually assaulted. I just dont know. Their here for 2 more days, and ims cared to tell my dad about it cause i feel like he will take my partners side because I didnt say no.