Ex gf is now accusing me of rape.
So me and my gf had sex before a breakup, it was consensual with kissing and dirty talk, but she initially didn’t want to because friends were home and she doesn’t like being loud, but she consented after I said “we could be quiet.” She proceeded to accept and even said “do you want to put a baby in me?” So we continued and I penetrated her. About 10 seconds into it, the bed was noisy and squeaky so she said to stop, and I said okay and we immediately quit.
Life continues normal. 2 weeks later, we get into a big fight as I’m leaving for California for a tour, and she brings up again how she doesn’t like having sex in the same house as other people, and it makes her uncomfortable while re-assuring me saying “I’m not saying you raped me, you’re a good man, I’m not saying rape.” And I validated her boundaries for sex play and the setting in which it occurs. I have all this in text. Which also follows with her asking if I’m sexually attracted to her and a blow out between us about her vegan diet and the strains it puts on our relationship. Etc… we don’t talk for the duration of my trip per her request.
Apparently when I’m gone, a now ex friend of mine, tells her I was ‘seeing other women’ while gone.
I come home to a letter breaking up and I was blocked on all social media and her phone number. She mentions my lack of showing up for her and her daughter and doesn’t want to be with me anymore.
3 days later my now ex friend texts me saying we can’t be friends or work together anymore and that my ex is saying I raped her that morning. I was devastated and blown away on top of already being broken up with randomly.
Location: Nashville, TN but had sex in Queens, New York.