u/Dominator7742

My gf and I have been in a rocky yet happy almost 3 year relationship. I have finally gotten an apartment so things will start to progress within our relationship. We talk about marriage and I intend to propose soon but I’ve always felt like you should live with your partner before you get married to see how your lifestyles clash. She on the other hand wants to wait till marriage to move in together. She’s saying I’m controlling by having this as a dealbreaker but both of our parent have gotten divorced so I guess I feel a little more cautious? I love her with all my heart but idk what to do.

Edit: I say rocky because she has been recently diagnosed with anxiety so helping her with that has been hard but she has been going to therapy