u/Doingit98

A girl who lives in the same apartment as me. I saw her couple times and always said hello. And one night we ran into each other and I told her she is pretty and asked for her Snapchat and she gave it to me and accepted my friend request.

I didn’t message her that night or the next day because I was busy and at work. I tried to text her after work the next night and I noticed she unfriended me on Snapchat. And I just assumed she was either not interested in me at all or maybe the possibility she didn’t like that a whole day passed by and I didn’t text her since I added her on Snapchat and if that is that case I don’t think I want to date someone who unfriends me for waiting just 1 day to text them besides someone who is really interested in you doesnt get rid of you that quickly so in general I assumed she was not interested.

Anyway I got over it and moved on and my work schedule changed so I never run into her again at my apartment. And whole year passed by. But lately I keep seeing this girl whenever I get off work and taking the elevator from the parking garage to my floor. I come home from work at night around 11pm. She doesn’t seem to be coming from work or going to work at that time because she is wearing pajamas. She just comes down the elevator gets something from her car and goes back up the elevator around the same time I come from work and I pull into the garage. I just assumed she has something else going on at that time so I avoid taking the elevator at the same time as her and just wait in my car till she is done and goes back up the elevator to avoid awkwardness. I even changed the time I pull into the parking garage by 15 minutes and now she comes out the elevator 15 minutes later.

And now I am wondering if she wants me to run into her to try asking her snap/number again. Which would be weird because she already rejected me by unfriending me on Snapchat.
And I have been taught to not ask again after a girl rejects you or says no because that would be harassment. Am I reading too much into this?.
And If it is the case that she wants me to run into her again. What I am even supposed to do about that because asking out someone who already rejected you is considered harassment what is she even expecting me to do?

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u/Doingit98 — 12 days ago