I met this guy in our college, he is 5 years younger than me. We both met, and there definitely was something. He was way more into me than I was. I was more aware because I somehow knew this was just a short-term thing and had exclusively told him so. But later, when he pursued me time and time again, going on bike rides (he loved that I was with him, holding onto him), took me to his favourite places for food, went on car rides where he would hold my hand while driving, he even attempted to teach me to bike while holding me from behind, wanted privacy for cuddling, opening doors for me, he even seriously considered taking this long term and that we both did have potential, he said I brought him peace, I had all his attention, compliments every single day and I reciprocated after a while. Things led to sex, and even that was great. That went on, he even confessed to me once that he observes me a lot so that he would never say or do something that would hurt me.
Something happened, just the other day, when he said the line about him being observant, etc., etc. He had cried a lot that night. He told me later and asked me not to tell a single soul. I agreed to it and never told anybody. We both were coming out of a toxic relationship and did sometimes miss our exes, but we always talked about them and made each other understand that the past was not healthy, etc. There was nothing he would not tell me; once, he even confessed that he loves me while he was drunk.
Now, it's been a week or so, and he has been very distant. I can sense something changing; he got very busy with his startup. But going from this to not having time to call doesn't sit well with me. It had been 3 days of no proper contact when it started bothering me. I asked him why he is changing, etc., etc., and wrote mid-text about how this is hurting me. I suspected that he was lying to me about his location, and he never sent me his current location to prove me wrong. He still did not act upon it, and I ended the situationship.
I kept missing him still, and it had been a few days since I had to talk to him because we are doing a project together. Things led to us meeting where I melted while I was drunk and told him that I missed him, gave him pecks, and he smiled. After that, he was still somewhat distant. I asked him if he was mad at me regarding the recent argument, to which he said no. But he kept acting distant. He did steal kisses, but was also actively scared to look close to me. I suspect a friend of his is the reason that he might tell this to somebody, etc
Last time I asked him to stay over, he did not say anything, and later, when the time came, he left with his friends for his place. I was heartbroken as I had no idea why he had suddenly become distant. I asked him, and he says he is still the same. I told him that I miss him, the older him and not what he has become lately, to which he again kisses me, we cuddle, etc., but I know something is wrong.
I ended the situation for real this time because I was feeling too much hurt. But I just cannot understand why someone would do this? This is such a mind fuck? Is he being repulsed by me?