Hey, I was wondering if people could give me some insights to help not get into something to fast. 2 years post divorce after a 14 year marriage. I dated a couple of men and in both cases I was exclusive three dates in and in both cases one was three month and the last one was only 1 month and then it became clear they weren’t the right fit, one personality and the other life circumstances. I just wondered how not to over romanticize the process and stay more centered.
Also, how long do you wait to be intimate and why?
I want to hear how people reason through their dating decisions lol because I want to just be dating from a place of being centred and comfortable. I think also being more comfortable with rejection would be good for me and that’s why I’m taking a break to figure out myself a bit more. Not trying to be chosen.