* Wife had an EA with someone long distance, turned physical. Caught the early EA texts over her shoulder and approached her. She denied it was anything and said she stopped contact.
* She later said she was unhappy in relationship, said she was moving out (and she did) and going to file after we sell house. Before she moved, it turned physical (she doesn’t know I saw those texts). I have pics of the texts talking about the act.
* AP’s STBX has been updating her Facebook with obvious marital issue quotes over the last few months and I feel so bad for her. I’m not sure if they’re officially divorced.
* I don’t know if it was my wife triggered his divorce. But it’s clear my wife and AP want a future together (or she’s just love bombing him until next validation vending machine comes along).
* As much as I’d love to see them both suffer, my wife, AP and AP’s spouse all work in the same umbrella (not the same company per se) but their drama would reach a lot of ears.. I’m not sure if by telling AP’s wife it would put a bad taste in the board’s mouth and have negative consequences for my wife and she would likely know who spilled the beans.
* I’m clutching onto my retirement account hard and AFAIK she’s going to be more than fair on the splitting of assets because she doesn’t want to owe alimony (nor do I really want to collect. She makes significantly more but my retirement is far beyond what she’d be capable of).
* I guess I’m also crazy in thinking I’m going to get an explanation, apology, “oh dear god I made a huge mistake by leaving you” that would help my ego but not necessarily what I want. And by spilling the beans it would likely end that from happening. I know, I’m crazy.
Curious your thoughts.