u/Dizzy_Illustrator497

is this derealization?

hey so i had spoken to my therapist about this a little while ago and plan to bring it up again next time i see her! i just wanted you guys’ thoughts.

f19 btw! so i always feel a little drunk… or maybe even like i’m on laughing gas. in fact, the first time i got drunk, i was so relieved that i finally had something to compare to the weird feeling in my head lol.

i’ll try to explain it a little more. everything is slightly muted. it’s like i’m looking through a headset. or like i’m zoning out and this is the daydream. but NOT because I don’t think me/my surroundings aren’t real. it just literally feels like what you a daydream feels like. like my vision isnt hazy, but it has the feeling of haziness…? does that make sense (no..) i also am not very aware of my surroundings, which is getting increasingly worse and very worrying as i’m starting to drive more and being aware of my surroundings is very critical on the road.

the main thing i see with DP/DR though, is that the people experiencing it don’t feel real. or are questioning reality or what i’m experiencing. i’m not questioning that at all. maybe it’s cause i’ve gotten used to the feeling? or because it’s something unrelated.

the closest i’ve gotten to that would be like when i have to heavily rely on my dad to tell me if (insert object) is actually in front of me because i don’t trust myself to perceive my surroundings.

it first started when i had a really bad anxiety attack in april of 2021. i had convinced myself i was having a heart attack and went to the ER. (i was a big hypochondriac and went on to go to the ER for what i thought was a brain tumor and aneurysm. i’m fine now!) anyways, ever since then i’ve had this weird feeling in my head. i will say that at first it was almost a physical feeling- like i was underwater or my brain was full of air. now it’s kinda merged into what it is now. sorry i am not great at explaining it. to be fair, i don’t totally know what i’m feeling.

neurological issues have been ruled out!

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u/Dizzy_Illustrator497 — 3 days ago

hii i just wanted to know if you guys think this is mental health related/if anyone else is dealing with this!

i started driving recently so it’s become more of a problem. some road examples would be like… i can’t perceive cars in front of me sometimes. like i can see, but i’m not processing what i see. i don’t know. i don’t think it’s safe for me to be on the road.

another example- i’m really anxious about my pets. i always count to make sure all my rats are in their cage. i take pictures of each one after locking the cage doors and send them to my friends/dad. i make sure that they can see my rats too and that i’m not just imagining theyre there. i don’t know if what i’m saying makes any sense. apologies.

anyways, i pretty much just can’t trust my senses. having to focus on any single thing whatsoever is total overload for my brain. i feel like i’m not fully here or like i’m really drunk… or like i’m on laughing gas. it’s been like this for a few years now. anyways thanks for reading! lmk if you’re dealing with this too! :3

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u/Dizzy_Illustrator497 — 12 days ago