Height and not length or girth is my problem since high school. Now in my mid-40s. I’m only 5’7”. I’ve been told by women I’m cute and I’ve even had friends and family call me handsome, so objectively I’m a solid 7-8 if you don’t take height into account.
Problem? Everyone does.
When I was single, every time I’d go to a party, invariably the girls that would never date me, they always ended up rolling around in the sheets with me (two times it was more than one girl, sorority’s are fun). Only to find out, even though I’m short, my dick is not. I’m a solid 6.5-6.7in (depending on hardness because after you’re a bit more experienced you know that being tired or just plain not that into it, rubber mode and not steel is a thing. I’m proportionately thick enough to have even women that were wet and ready (I’m good at oral as well as I don’t just bang on the clit, gotta work up to it ya know?) have asked me to go slow because it hurt if we didn’t work it in or not hit bottom and slap crotches (hitting that deep isn’t fun for some women). I never caused fissures and while sore, most women would come back many times.
Sounds good?
No.
No women ever wanted to acknowledge the experience until they gossiped with girlfriends and then I’d find myself oddly approached or hit on, but only one-on-one or sneaking in windows or later having one-night stands or a series of off and on fuck buddies.
Big dick aside, good looks aside, I’m never a woman’s first choice in a group of men nor am I more than a cuddle-toy for others. I did eventually find a girl who loved me, but even she will flirt a bit with large teddy bear guys. We’ve even had some threesomes and foursomes where the guy was 6’+ in height, but lacking and not packing. Their wife or girlfriend would have a lot of fun, but my wife would always be disappointed so we don’t have extra marital fun anymore. Having a big dick isn’t everything, but being tall… it might be.