My no contact has been reset many times now because of the harassment and persistence of my ex and the last interaction was particularly damaging. This time I have disappeared completely to try and be unreachable, it’s the only way, I hope! Now on week three again. Just so exhausted can barely move, and in that awful withdrawal stage again. I don’t want contact at all, but there is still a physiological urge from the trauma bond of hell that just builds up despite that. It really is an addiction you have to fight. Would appreciate any ideas for distractions from anyone going through the same thing, and advice from those further along as well. Need some hope and some wisdom, that takes into consideration the exhaustion crash from this, to be honest.
Also, has anyone else’s ex been this persistent? I’ve actually had relationship with diagnosed pwBPD before but I have never been so heavily persued and this obsessively. When I’m replaced, I’m sure that’s going to hit even harder just because of the drastic and sudden change.