Well let’s see, my boyfriend said that if he can’t tell me what to do when it comes to my dog, then maybe we (me and my dog) should move out.
He’s since apologized but he still stands firm on if he can’t “hold me accountable” when it comes to taking my dog out or telling him to get off the bed, then we need to leave.
My dog is trained, doesn’t have accidents, and is used to cuddling in the bed with me. Now that I’ve moved in with my boyfriend, it’s been an adjustment not to let my dog on the bed. And as far as taking him outside, he’s always been on an AM and PM schedule. I’m guilty of laying in bed 15 minutes longer than I should some mornings, but not to the point where the pup is relieving himself inside.
Anyway, he bought me flowers 2 days after the blow up. But I’m over “I’m sorry” flowers. We’re still together, but the threat of him kicking me out is still lingering and hurts.
Staying with a friend or family isn’t an option, so I’ve been looking for apartments ever since this happened. I feel like if he can threaten my sense of security (he pays rent and all household bills) over a dog, then we shouldn’t be living together.
Don’t know whether I’m overreacting or if this relationship is coming to an end.
Breakfast for dinner: Avocado toast with leftover salmon. Couldn’t decide on what type of eggs I wanted, so I made one runny and scrambled the other.