Not sure about my marriage
My husband and I have been together for 15years and married for 10. Early in in our relationship he cheated on me with a girl from work, for years said they just "flirted". Last year found out he has a work crush on another coworker and we started counseling. The extent to the first woman came out after all these years and he says nothing happened with the current woman. To be fair, I think she isn't interested in my husband at all and he would have been all over it if she was. He says he isn't attracted to her anymore, but just knowing he was bothers me a lot. That combined with the fact that I have found porn on his devices many times while our sex life is basically non-existent at this point has me really upset all the time. I don't want to see my kids only fifty percent of the time, but don't know what to make out of my husbands behavior. I feel very insecure in this relationship and I really don't trust him at all anymore, even though I want to. What should I do?
tl;Dr My husband has a history of trying to hook up with girls at work, and a possible porn addiction. Our sex life is basically non existent and I don't know if I should leave him. need advice