u/Distinct-Night5565

So for context my fiancees mom has diabetes and due to an issue with her thyroid had to go into the hospital. Upon checking in my fiancee was helping her mom with going to the bathroom and what not. After being in emergency for 2 days they moved her to a room and my fiancee wanted to stay over night to help her mom in case she needed the bathroom or whatever. The first night her dad stayed but the next night my fiancee was going to stay. I'm like that's fine. I work at 5 am every day 7 days a week for about 7 months straight then I get time off. I also have tons of paper work to get caught up on. So i was like when I get her set up at the hospital I can power through this paperwork and get a decent amount of sleep. So i run pick up supper for her run her home to shower get pajama a blanket and have some tea. We arrive at home at 8:45 pm. I'm expecting this whole thing to take at most 1.5 hours. Well 12:15 am we are leaving and only because I flipped out when I caught her cleaning an already clean stove instead of putting her shoes on. She's going on and on about how she can take an Uber that doesn't change the fact that I'm getting 4 hours sleep again because of her inability to go to sleep before midnight. She kept dying are you rushing me when at 9 I was saying go shower. So am I the ah for being pissed off about taking 3.5 hours to do something that should have taken an hour.