u/DissassociativeLion

This isn’t a one sided story; my girlfriend 21 F and I 25 M have been dating for roughly a year. It’s April 2026 and back in March of 2025 during our talking stage I hooked up with a girl that I never kept in contact with. I’m a decently large content travel creator so I travel often. And last month in April I was in Perú; she went with her friends to Chicago. A new group of friends from an au pair group chat. While she was out she somehow ran into the girl I hooked up with a year ago, and it hurt her very bad and we talked about it and I thought she understood this was when I wasn’t fully into our relationship. Still it was wrong, but she ended up taking her payback that night while I’m in Perú she gave oral to one guy she met at the club back at the hotel when she turned her phone off which she claimed her friend took from her. After oral with the one guy she went to bed and some random guy she didn’t know laid down with her and they had sex. She begs me to stay and said she made a decision out of anger and blindness trying to feel better about what happened. She’s been my backbone and support system for the past year greatest girl I thought I ever had. She had just moved here from Mexico to be an au pair. And we’ve spent almost every single day together since. It hurts so bad, I ended it but she’s adamant that we can work through this.