u/Dismal_Win_1973

Honestly, i have no clue how you even get into a relationship, let alone getting more than one date. I have this abnormal and way blown out of proportion fear that if i ever talk to a girl i'll immediately get arrested for harrasment and being a weirdo (i know it's stupid and probably a self-esteem issue from me more than anything but i genuinely can't help it).

The only dates i've ever gone on the first step was taken by the women and i just went with the flow, but then either i said something stupid or was too friendly cuz we either just stay friends or we don't talk ever again (only one actually lead to a relationship but i broke up with her because i moved away and didnt want long-distance).

Im guessing it's my personality because if it was ugliness i wouldn't even get to the date part, there's something i do wrong either during or before that, and also the fact i can't approach a woman first for the life of me.