[18F]Told my boyfriend about my insecurities and now I feel worse
I told my boyfriend that I have PCOD, mastalgia, and white discharge since puberty and he knew this thing so long. I'm 18. The discharge thing is literally normal for a lot of girls, but sometimes it gets uncomfortable and makes me feel gross because it can get stuck around the openings and feels annoying/hygiene related.
Instead of reassuring me or even reacting normally, this man goes: "Then how will people do bj?" At that time we were talking about these things like bj n all but i didn't expected him to include this part into my health segment.
Like WHAT???
We've been together since school we were classmates since we're in relationship and are now about to go into college together, so hearing that genuinely shocked me. I was talking about something vulnerable and medical, and somehow his brain immediately went there.
Now I genuinely don't know if I'm overreacting or if that response was actually insanely immature and insensitive.
Because why was your first concern sexual when your girlfriend is clearly feeling embarrassed and vulnerable