Is it time to give up?
Hey. I am a 32M. I have only been on one date many years ago.
I feel like it is time for me to give up. I tried single ministries. I tried online dating apps. I tried to ask friends to help me… they never did. My pastors want me to continue going to the church but there is no one single. I visit third spaces regularly and have a good reputation, but nothing has come out of it.
I was praying over one woman and felt like God was giving me peace over her. This never happened before. I recently found out she moved away, and she won’t message me back. One time paying, it even felt like God was telling me that He will give me someone soon. Now I don’t know if that will come true.
I am lonely. I can’t deal with this. I always wanted a family and kids but now I think it isn’t meant for me. I can’t get rid of the desire. However, I no longer see why I should keep on trying.
Should I just give up? What should I do? I really want to be with someone, but it seems impossible.