u/DifficultySimilar102

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Should I talk first

There's this guy I like in uni, I'm sure he likes me too cause that's how I noticed him, but we haven't talked yet. I'm starting to think it's my fault cause maybe I'm not giving him enough signs so I guess the only solution is to go and talk to him.

Problem is I'm really shy and I'm gonna need a lot of courage to talk first but I can't wait anymore. I'm not gonna see him for another two weeks so I've got plenty of time to think about it. I don't know his name, his social media, nothing. He's quiet like me and I really wanna meet him.

Was thinking about telling him good morning and then I have no idea how I'd keep the conversation going, I know for a fact I'm gonna be hella awkward and my heart is gonna be running and I'll be probably trembling and I don't know how to face that. We sit in the same row so I feel it's gonna be awkward if the convo stops and we just sit beside one another...

Do guys generally like it when a girl makes the first move? I can't believe I'm even considering this but I feel like it's the only way to stop overthinking it. I just need to get my head around it and convince myself to do it but I'm worried when the time comes I still won't do it.

Any tips? Was anyone ever in my position and how did you manage the anxiety?

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u/DifficultySimilar102 — 8 hours ago