My daughters father is moving in with someone new after 4 months
We broke up in October I moved states and and have primary custody of our daughter. He chose to stay on the east coast(we are now on the west coast). He hasn’t seen her but for 4 days since we moved in October and he’s trying to plan a trip for my daughter to go visit I said yes and we got it all planned out.
The issue is he texted me today and told me him and his new girlfriend got a house and will be fully moved in by the time she visits. And it hurts, so bad I have so many feelings about it. My self worth tanked reading that because he treated me so badly towards the end and already has someone new playing house and sending my 3 year old there freaks me out, she’s so young and it’s been 5 months since they’ve seen each other last. I have no clue how to process any of these feelings, about him, about my daughter going for that long, all of it hurts so badly and I don’t even know where to begin. Being a single mom is so hard, I don’t really have the time to date nor am I really ready for it, I don’t understand how it was so easy for him to move on and start over. I’m jealous, I’m mad, I’m an absolute anxious mess thinking about it. I’m not sure what I’m looking to get out of this post but I think just typing it all out will help. I haven’t met this woman or anything and I’m not going to be able to meet her either because he’s flying with her.