u/Different_Air_236

Hello everyone. I have been struggling with staying consistent while studying, especially with distractions and overthinking.

So, recently, I started trying a “study with me” method where I just sit, keep a timer, and focus, surprisingly it is helping me feel less alone and more accountable.

Do you guys use any techniques like this? What actually works for you when you can’t focus?

Also, I recorded one of my sessions if anyone wants to try studying together. Not sure if it will help, but I can share the session if anyone is interested 🙂

Hello everyone. I have been struggling with staying consistent while studying, especially with distractions and overthinking.

So, recently, I started trying a “study with me” method where I just sit, keep a timer, and focus, surprisingly it is helping me feel less alone and more accountable.

Do you guys use any techniques like this? What actually works for you when you can’t focus?

Also, I recorded one of my sessions if anyone wants to try studying together. Not sure if it will help, but I can share the session if anyone is interested 🙂

Hey everyone,

This might be a bit different from usual posts here, but I thought I would give it a shot.

I am eldest child in my family and clan, and lately, I often feel like I'm missing that "badi didi" (elder sister) kind of presence in my life, like someone a little older, understanding, and practical. I mean someone you can talk to, get valuable guidance from, get a different perspective from, and just have normal, meaningful conversations with.

So yeah, I am looking for a “badi didi” kind of vibe — nothing weird or romantic, just a genuine, respectful connection where we can chat about life, share thoughts, and maybe you can guide me once in a while with your experience.

Idk if I am looking like weirdo or creep, but if this sounds like something you would be up for, feel free to reach out. And even if you're not interested, I would appreciate if you all could suggest or advice anything. Cheers.

Hey everyone,

Random thought, do people actually have that "badi Didi" kind of presence in their life?

I am eldest child in my family and clan, and lately, I often feel like I'm missing that "badi didi" kind of presence in my life, like someone a little older, understanding, and practical. I mean someone you can talk to, get valuable guidance from, get a different perspective from, and just have normal, meaningful conversations with. Ofc, not in a dramatic way, just a simple, positive dynamic.

So yeah, I wish if I had a “badi didi” kind of vibe, nothing weird or romantic, just a genuine, respectful connection where we can chat about life, share thoughts, and maybe you can guide me once in a while with your experience.

Curious to hear your experiences, like do you all have someone like that in your life? Does it happen naturally or over time?

I would appreciate if you all could suggest or advice anything. Cheers.