So my ex gf (18F) broke no-contact with me (19M) a a couple months back out of nowhere, mind you we both moved on a couple times but she recently got out of a relationship, I knew why she broke no contact but I wanted her to say why and she kept being vague about why she “can” talk to me now. By the way the past me and immature version of myself treated her wrong and I did things that I shouldn’t have that made her feel bad and I genuinely feel bad for how I handled things.
We start talking and she tells me a-lot of new things about her and her family life, she’s very family oriented so it was a big part of our relationship. I proceed to tell her whats new and she honestly wanted a more exciting platonic relationship with me than she thought it would be but I had a lot on my plate with school, taking care of family, and music I take making music seriously so it takes up a-lot of my time plus work.
I barely have time for other people, shes very nice and understanding and told me a little bit of the flaws of her ex relationship after me but i’ve been a little curious and its hard to tell myself that she isn’t the person she was when she was dating me and she isn’t mine anymore so it was hard to treat her like someone other than mine but I eventually got the hang of it. And recently she’s been a bit weird to me like kinda making fun of me in a way and clowning me I would say so im getting mixed signals. Am I the person she came back to as a rebound? Because im a comfort place in her mind and heart? Or to make me feel like a fool and make me feel like a horrible person because of how our relationship ended and what I did to her.
(Sorry for the rant).