u/Different-Scene-3401

My husband's addiction

Can I be on here if my husband has an addiction? I have a Alanon sponsor and have attended off and on for 12 yrs because of my ex husband.

But yes, the crazy thing is I married a Marijuana 'addict' or so it seems. We have been married about 5 years now.

I am retired. He is still trying to work. He has cut back I think mainly because of finances. I don't know exactly what I'm looking for. I think I'm just exhausted. It's a roller coaster of his mood swings. Whether it's the decrease of his marijuana or his long hours of his new job. I get blamed for too much. And once again I have to set a new boundary and find myself when he does have time off that I am resting by myself.

And yes. I still want our marriage to work. There are still signs he wants it too. He just takes his frustrations out on me.

It's so much like a 'dry drunk' . Thanks for reading

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u/Different-Scene-3401 — 5 days ago