u/Different-Call-6990

I don’t really have much of a community in my area and this community has helped me a lot in the past. I got out of a toxic long term relationship that was not good for either of us at the beginning of the year. I dated someone for a bit and this morning got I can’t date right now text after 4 months and blocked immediately. I feel hurt and thrown away. We weren’t perfect but we had been good recently. I know we both have a lot going on right now so I don’t blame her but I wish she would’ve handled it differently. It just hurts. Both situations taught me lessons about myself and what is healthy and toxic for me. I’m a work in progress and I’ll get there.

I came here looking for friends awhile back because my area is midwest small town vibes with not much of a community. I have a friend that’s connecting me with someone that’s pretty involved with what little community we have. I’d love to just make some friends while I work on healing from everything going on. I just don’t think that dating is for me while I work on myself. Trust also won’t come easily in the future. Healing is going to be my main priority at this point but if anyone has some advice or looking for friendship feel free to reach out.

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u/Different-Call-6990 — 17 days ago

I got out of a toxic long term relationship that was not good for either of us at the beginning of the year. I dated someone for a bit and this morning got I can’t date right now text after 4 months and blocked immediately. I feel hurt and thrown away. I know we both have a lot going on right now so I get it and I don’t blame her but I wish she would’ve handled it differently. It just hurts I guess. I just don’t how you guys do this dating thing. I came here looking for friends in the community awhile back because my area is midwest small town vibes with not much of a community. I’d love to just make some friends and work on healing from everything going on. I just don’t know that dating is for me while I work on me. Healing is going to be my main priority at this point but if anyone has some advice feel free to reach out.

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u/Different-Call-6990 — 17 days ago