Before anyone asks i wash regularly. I do so by rinsing with water, wiping with a soaked rag, or both and without soaps, so i don't alter my pH in anyway.
For a long while now i find these tiny brown or grey rolled up specs/flecks when i wipe over the course of the day, SPECIFICALLY under the hood of the outer lips. Cycle is usually the same: Wash in the morning and everything is wonderful, got to the bathroom and find a little so I wipe more to remove it, eventually go to the bathroom again later in the day and I find even more! So I do a full wash of her before bed.
This DRIVES ME CRAZY, and makes me feel unclean which is a horrible feeling. Has anyone experienced something like this? Is this a smegma issue? A toilet paper issue? Something else? I have never been sexually active so I hope that helps in ruling some things out.
It's always worse when im wearing a synthetic underwear. But it can happen with cotton as well.