Hi,me(m19)and and my girlfriend(19)were on the conversation of children for some reason and she’s said she has a weird gut feeling she can’t have children and if it comes to the that fact later down the line she’s going to end it for my sake.Shes unfortunately like many been sexually assaulted numerous times and has hinted that this is why she has this weird feeling ,I do love her and see her having my children but way way way down the line in life neither of us are near ready.But now I just feel like we’re a ticking time bomb waiting for a test result and then that’s us done when we could both spend our time in relationships that are the best for each other and this is something we don’t need to be worrying about as we’re both so young.She says she feels awful about ruining my life and the possibility of me having children and that’s why she would end the relationship,I’ve told her that if it gets to the that point I’m willing to stay and fight for our relationship but she said for me she would end it.
Im at a loss for an answer or what to do next.Ive told her while I’m at work to think about whether I can match her needs and wants because the way she talks about it is like she knows she can’t have children and not she thinks it.
Sorry for how long this is I just really need some advice.