January 25,2026 I went into the ER stating abdominal pain along with leakage to where I was changing pads every 3 hours. I was 18 weeks when they did an ultrasound and they told me I was completely fine! And that sometimes that just happens when you’re pregnant with the excessive liquid coming out. So I ended up right back at the ER due to feeling like I had something coming out of my vagina. Which was my babygirl whose umbilical cord and feet were in my cervix. Due to no amniotic fluid I gave birth to her and she lived for a hour and 5 minutes and passed away as I held her. I been on a decline ever since actually feels like I’m going crazy months later. I had her cremated and she is placed in a soft teddy bear with her remains in a heart. I can barely look at it without breaking down crying still to this day. Random moments of crying and saying it’s fault as well. So today I got the strength to look at my medical records to see what went wrong and why did the ER did not tell me my fluids was leaking on the 25th. The records did indicate that there was a fluid leak but told me otherwise. I thought everything was ok until I ended up back in the hospital on the 29th. I just need advice on how that could’ve been handled or is there any room for grounds to sue for emotional distress. I have been lost ever since on how that could’ve been prevented.
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