u/DiamondGirl201

First hookup

I'm having my first hookup tomorrow. (I've already made up my mind so please don't try to talk me out of it). I'm 18F and am seeing a 20M I met on Bumble. We actually matched on a different app a long time ago but reconnected recently. I'm not worried about the sex itself. I'm a virgin but for some reason I feel like it will be fine. I'm also not telling him I'm a virgin. I'm not worried about pain either because I've done enough solo to know what I like. My main concern is the logistics of it all. We're meeting somewhere and are gonna do it in his car. I'm worried about being awkward. Do I just get in the car and boom, start fucking or what? Is it normal to just go straight into it or should I try and talk to him more since this will be our first time meeting? Do I stay after in his car or do I get dressed and leave? I have read a lot of other people's experiences and most of them included a date or hangout beforehand but that's not the case for me. Any advice helps! I would love to hear other people's experiences!

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u/DiamondGirl201 — 13 hours ago