u/Diabolik_end

Fellow Gem moons I need help

So for the past 2 years I have been healing from a heartbreak, all I wanna say is that me and this person absolutely cannot be with each other, and are not on speaking terms. I had to leave the situation and block them, and I never got proper closure. To this day I’m still struggling to let go of the situation, or them, or both… idk. I’m doing everything I can to move on with my life and let them go, I even have met new people and tried dating around, but I always come back to this person in the back of my mind. Not a single day has gone by that I didnt think of them (and I’m not kidding it’s every single day) and some days I even debate getting back in contact, but I don’t because it’s not a good idea.

What I don’t get is that it’s normally not this hard to detach from a person for me, I mean for fucks sake my moon is in an air sign (Gemini at that 💀) so it shouldn’t be this difficult! I figured my Taurus Venus also has something to do with it as we have a tendency to take our time with things related to romance.

My problem is that it’s hard for me to let myself feel emotions, when all I do is intellectualize my feelings and rationalize EVERY. SINGLE. THING.

But really at this point I’m just desperate to be over this person.

Any Gemini moons out there who can give me some advice?

I love Scorpios, every Scorpio placement falls in my 11th house so I end up being really good friends with them. Especially Scorpio woman, I feel like we just function the same, but I guess that’s the whole point of sister signs is that there is a connection that reflects on each other like a mirror

- A Taurus

As a Taurus I don’t think I would date another Taurus, I’ve tried and it always failed, I personally just want someone who will get me out of the house and take me on adventures (I have a gem moon and sag rising so I think that kinda contributes to it) but I love being friends with other Taureans for sure!

Also I do know that it actually depends on other placements in the chart like moon, Venus, mars and Jupiter. I just wanna know if anyone has had luck dating ppl with the same sun sign as them