u/DiMatteoArt

30M and 33M, thoughts on me ending a 3 year relationship over this item I found on an old shopping order from 2025?

So I found an item on an old previous grocery order back from 2025 for pickup “condoms “

Problem is, we never used this item since we are monogamous, so I thought and now coming across this it’s created this cloud of confusion and doubt.

I wanna know what to do, and if it’s over reacting if I was to end the relationship over this, as I can’t really see an answer to this that would make sense as to why this would be on a old shopping order.

Am I under reacting?

I even anticipated a possible answer that might be said, the “I got it for a friend excuse”

I just wanna be sure I’m not under reacting either, because again, it doesn’t make any sense and to me it’s hard to ignore this, and that means he’s looked into my eyes everyday since then lying, and had I not seen this in a cart from trying to order on the app means I might have not seen this too.

Appreciate the responses, as I don’t think there’s a genuine valid response to this.

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u/DiMatteoArt — 2 days ago