u/DevourerTouka

I 21f have been with my boyfriend 29m for 1.5 years ,and latly my family and friends have been telling me that they think we should break up or go on a break. I love him i do but sometimes he treats me like a child make jokes about not giving me sharp objects or have big reactions to small things like acadently cuting my self while cooking, or not eating. Sometimes he comes up to my work and starting making sexual comments to me even after I express I'm uncomfortable with it, he quit his good job last year working in construction to now working a cricket any time I ask him when is he going to look for a new job I get met with resistance or saying he wants to look in person but no effort has been made, I have never even been to his house, I've met his family but that in tells me having to take out my pircings and cover my tattoo, his family hasn't even met mine yet and that his family is pushing back on that, I ha e express that I would like to see him more then once a week and it still has not happened or asking him to text me more instead of leaving me on open for 10h I've talked to him twice about most of these things like I wanna go out i wanna go on dates I want to go see thi go together even if it taking a walk at a park or having a picnic it's been 2 weeks since our last covo and it's still me taking the lead on stuff it feels like he puts in no effort and instead of trying to plan things it's "where do you wanna go" what do you want to eat" or pressuring me to make decisions instead of taking the lead I truly love him but idk what to do anymore my heart tells me one thing but my brain say another. please any advice any at all will help. What the best way to handle this?