Hey!
I had a close friend before this relationship. Then, I introduced my bf to this friend and later the whole friendgroup. They all became our mutual friends for almsot 8 years.
Last year (2025) February, we broke up. They all stayed in contact w my ex, but not me. I always tried to organize something, reach out, talk etc, but the response was always some excuse why not. Managed to get 2 of them out 1 time and thats it. After 6 months I stopped trying. Anither 6 months have passed and not 1 of them reached out even once.
Yesterday was my 30 birthday party, ofc I invited them all. I got ghosted and later declinef with excuses after I sent them another message. They didnt even write me or anything.
I know the correct thing is to forget them, move forward, they obviously dont want to be in my life. But I am thiking to reach out again to try to get some honest answer from them.
Any advice is very appreciated. Thanks 🙏🏻