I've said since I was freaking 13 that I don't want any kids. Everytime someone said when you are older you will change your mind. One teacher told me "You say that now, but in a few years I'll see you on the street pushing a stroller" like ○|￣|＿ ....
Its been years haven't changed my mind not only do I have health issues that with a pregnancy will get 10 times worse (i will 100% get permanent diabetes) but I also dislike children. I was parentified heavily as a kid that has left me with mental issues and I also have adhd.
BUT YOU SEE CHILDREN ARE A JOY AND YOU WILL DEFINITELY CHANGE YOUR MIND.
WHEN YOU WILL FALL IN LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT WHEN YOU WILL HAVE YOUR NEW BORN BABY IN YOUR HANDS
(*_*; plus+++ women are expected to do all the work and be literal slaves where I'm from and husbands literally do fuck all
Nah I'd rather go on vacations and have multiple pets a garden maybe
BUT WHAT WILL YOU DO WHEN YOU GROW OLD?
Respectfully I'd rather exit the server with dignity than having someone take care of me and be at their mercy
BUT IGNORING ALL OF THE REASONS WHY DO PEOPLE JUST NOT ACCEPT A NO