u/Despisethesun666

I (35M) found out my wife (34F) has been texting some guy that she met at the gym. I found out when his gf messaged me to give me a heads up that my wife was sending nude videos. I thought it was fake and my wife said it was too so i ignored it thinking it's a scam but yesterday she came clean and said it's true. It's been going on for about two months and i found out she sent a video of us in bed to this kid and a video of her pleasuring herself. She said she's sorry and blocked him and all that, but I can't help but think what would have happened if she didn't get caught. I asked her if she wants an open relationship to see what she would say and she actually seemed ok with the idea.

I (35M) out that my wife (34F) has been talking with this guy on instagram and sending nude pics and videos via text messages (one that has me in it). He's apparently 20 years old and from what I can tell she's always been the one to text him. his girlfriend sent me screen shots and i figured out that its always on nights that i'm not home. i feel super betrayed even though it was nothing physical as far as i can tell. he have a child and a house together and we've been married for almost 5 years. She has admitted to everything because when the girlfriend starting sending me messages i thought it was fake. she came clean today but not with all the details. i found out she sent a sex tape of me and her and a video of her pleasuring herself.

TL;DR my wife is texting some kid nudes and im pissed.