so i just confessed to my coworker that i had a crush on him lol. it wasnt like a huge thing but i gave him my snapchat after telling him that i didnt like the guy he thought that i did and i liked someone else. he kept pressing the issue and beggine me to tell him and stuff. we texted a bit and we were doing this thing where i was being extremely obvious about my hints (just describing him) and he kept being like "oh i dont know" and "just tell me" and then i just told him and he told me he had a girlfriend. this is the THIRD TIME this has happened. i like a guy, i kinda chat with them, they flirt with me a bit, and then i find out that they have a girlfriend. atleast this dude told me straight up, the other 2 times i had to find out from outside sources.
and before anyone gets on my ass about this being my coworker, lesson learnt lol. but im leaving this job anyways so its not the end of the world but i am very embarrased and just feeling stupid.
why does this keep happening to me? what am i doing wrong?