u/Desperate-Cause-6374

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Is it that weird that I do not want to enter a relationship?

So, I (F22) am a nursing student and in a few weeks I will graduate. In the unit I intern in, there is this resident and we are from the same town, so there is some common ground. Not gonna lie, he is kind and pretty and never makes you feel stupid (which is rare with the doctors). My family has been pressuring me to ask him out. The mistake on my part is that during the Easter break he was also in our town, and after I returned to my internship he asked me why I did not text to go for a coffee with him, and I was caught off guard so I just playful said that he was supposed to text, how was I supposed to know? Anyway, I mentioned this to my family now for a bit of gossip (my mama always enjoys it) and she began pestering me again to ask him out, saying that I do not have much left of my internship, and she could always ask around for his number and initiate things. It frustrates me, because I cannot tell her I do not want to be in a relationship, I don't like people in a sexual way, it makes me uncomfortable. Is it normal to now want all these things? Or should I go for it to try to fit in?

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u/Desperate-Cause-6374 — 4 days ago