u/DesignerStrawberry83

So my girlfriend broke up with me 3 months ago, and it’s been so hard for both of us, I immediately opened my eyes and started improving and changing into a better version of myself. Started going to therapy, quit the drinking (main issue), cut off bad habits and bad influences she didn’t like me having around, etc. and we’ve already seen each other twice (first one went to the movies cause she had a crisis cause she was missing me) but then when we saw each other the 1st time she was completely cold but then confessed it was because she didn’t wanna open her heart cause I smelled and looked the same. On Sunday we went to the beach and it went well, no contact, but very good conversation, and I got to wash her feet, etc. but she still distant and focusing a lot on the negative things that I did when I was so mentally unstable, I regret those things and I would never be the same person. So, what do you gouts think, I wanna hear you guys’ experiences and advice.