u/DesignerSkyline01

So I find it more convenient to wear my (probably only one) long sleeve dress when I want to go out after praying home, but with hijab when I'm on sajdah it exposes (just a little bit, I think???) of my back (as far as I can feel?). Does that invalidate prayer. I'm pretty sick of all these small things that add up to me not even wanting to offer salah anymore, I'm so frustrated. If I need to wear long enough socks (to be able to hold wudhu), have to repeat wudhu bc of air bubbles, wear long enough sleeves, hijab that doesn't go up, dress that covers up neck enough (I'm pretty sure most dresses nowadays are not made such) then those scholars should give me money to buy all that.

Two different "events" by different "organizations" happening almost at the same time, having a very similar brand design. What a scam.

Dvoumim se između smjera grafički idzajn i IR. Poprilicno razliciti ali... s kojim bih prije našla posao... Dizajn peruzima AI, ali mi se smjer čini jednostavnijim, zanimljivijim i imam više postignuća u tom smjeru (veću stipendiju, već sam radila interviju ali sam im rekla da se dvoumim). Također dosta je praktičan, pa recimo da bih mogla raditi u kopirnici ili tako negdje, između ostaloga, ako shvatate šta želim reći. IR je više kao odsjek na kojemu sam bila i odustala (jer nisam imala neki krajnji cilj tu a bilo je i naporno), Anglistika na FF, tako da bi već dosta razumjela tempo i način rada. Zanima me ekološka osvještenost, pomaganje ljudima, i znam da IR na određeni način se bavi time, ali više politički nego recimo ekološki. Volim da imam cilj da riješim neki problem što će doprinjeti nekoj humanitarnoj svrhi i tome slično. S čime bih prije našla posao?

Oni zvukovi što podsjećaju na jodlanje ali kao radosno zviždanje na svadbama i tako to. Znam random je pitanje al me toliko zanima nakon što je postalo trend na TikToku zbog onog jednog skandala.

Kao da sam čula te zvukove i kod nas? Vjv nema naša verzija nego samo preuzimamo od arapa. Ili sam makar čula arapsku zarghoutu stavljenu u naše pjesme 🤔 Trazim na internetu o tome ali nema rezultata

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TL;DR : My question is how do I balance the understanding that a bully had their own reason to bully, and that their behavior is still supposed to be punished?

I did not have severe cases of bullying but doesn't mean I shouldn't talk about this and just be happy, there are things that are just beyond my logic (even if I do know the explanations of those behaviors) because some people just lack emotional understanding and overshadow everything with logical reason (i.e. you can not tell a bully how to behave, thus it's all on me to understand the reason they bully (of course all by myself bc of unspoken rules, and only IF I can understand it by myself, if I can't then what can you do I'm just supposed to) ). It just bothers me the thought that I could've had the most beautiful years of my life while I was still young if I only knew some things or if some people were more emotionally intelligent. But then I also realize that if I did try harder to fit in, I most likely could not. For many many different reasons. Also the fact that I have to change my whole appearance (which I have to figure out by myself, again, SOMEHOW) just to not be "worthy of bullying" just because of someone else's judgmental personality and point of view, when they could just change their point of view is mind blowing to me. Again, YES, some kind of logically, objectively oriented person can come here and correct me "but that is because of... (blabla)" to every single complaint I have, and the point is - I do understand that everything in this social hierarchy/evolution thingy has a reason, I'm not trying to be delusional and overly idealistic, just reasonable. Reasonable... Like, I understand that my bully had her own issues and probably did not know how to solve them. But nobody telling me that (under the explanation that you don't say these things aloud) makes it even worse (alongside the fact that "you can not tell a bully how to behave" but the millisecond I do smt wrong it's completely different), you just expect me to just simply exist as a certain kind of person, already understand everything that I have yet to figure out (and need a better explanation), etc.

I'm stuck in remembering some not so nice things in the past (bullying) and I want to let go of those thoughts. I think that things were unfair towards me in those situations and all odds were against me. And I just can't understand why it couldn't have been different, like why did Allah not give me the confidence or at least one, even small, thing to clearly understand about the psychology behind bullying, in order to make my experience different. I don't know why Allah doesn't give me answer now to some things that are bothering me even if I'm praying for it, questions such as: how would bullies be punished if they had a "reason", or more like "explanation" to bully (personal issues, social hierarchy etc.)?

Oni koji su to zavrsili ili idu, kakva su vam iskustva? Zanima me taj studiju posto inace sam osoba s jakim moralima i ako imam cilj da pomognem nekom narodu u onome u cemu se specijalizujem, onda se to uvijek trudim odraditi kako treba. Radila sam esej na temu odrzivosti, kvaliteta zraka i vode u Sarajevu. Znam da studij ima dosta veze s tim stvarima. Logicko/matematicko razmisljanje i fokusiranje mi nije jaca strana ali se trudim koliko mogu, nadam se da ce profesori uvijek tu biti za mene i ako imam previse pitanja na casu i budem svima naporna. Kako ide, je li previse citanja, itd?

Stalno po kuci pa na praksu pa ovo ono. I iscrpljuje me cak i ovaj "olakšani" abdest (za sahibi uzur osobe tj osobe koje ne mogu sacuvati potpuni abdest zbog ucestalog mokrenja ili gasova , olakšanje je samo jednom uzeti abdest za cijelo namasko vrijeme), voljela bih održati abdest makar dva namaza koja su jedno uz drugo

Edit: objasnila sta je sahibi uzur

O izboru posla koji želim da radim. Većina kreativnih poslova ima haram kao veliki sastavni dio.

A da ne govorimo o tome kakva odjeća u namazu treba biti. Nek mi neko eto kupi 1. dovoljno dugu abaju (mogu mislit kako je djevojkama preko 180 cm kad meni sa 177 cm moje dvije abaje otkrivaju članke I jos moram nosit duge helanke, a tek koliko su inace abaje skupe), 2. carape koje su dovoljno duge PLUS nemaju nikakvih likova na njima (5-6 pari da ih mogu lahko naci; da mogu abdest preko njih, sahibi uzur sam), himar da mi ne otkrije leđa, I TAKO DALJE.