u/DepthLeft523

I very recently started having casual sex with my roommate. We both stated it would be nothing more and to keep it light and fun. That's all good with me, butttt its almost TOO casual. Like im just a peice of meat. He'll text me from the other room and be like "Wanna have sex?" Then come in my room, have sex, then make odd comments like "good job" and out he goes. What terminology should I use to bring this up without him thinking Im wanting anything romantic or catching feelings because im not. I guess I just want a basic level of respect.... any suggestions on how to approach this? I want to keep it short and sweet but also to the point. This may be casual but I still have standards. Not exactly sure what im even wanting him to do... thats the problem because I know he'll ask. Ugh