u/Dependent_Match2830

My neighbour lacks civic sense . Akela reta hai wo ladki evening meh bf sath sex pura Sunai dene Tak and raat ko dst sath daru piyega 3-4 baje Tak Subha ka . Chalo daru pita hai atleast friend ka ghar jaake piyo yaha rent meh uulta halla karega aur pine seh bhi itna raat pike loudly baat karke sabko disturb karega . Uusko pehle bhi samjaya hai ham aur baki neighbour joh , samajta nei hai ,ulta mera room saamne woh din cigarette packet phekke tha . Rent owner ko pehle complaint kiya tha aur woh bhi yeh ladki ko smjaya fir bhi nhi smjta hai . College 3rd year meh hai , college bhi kabhi jaane wala dikhai nhi Diya . Week meh 2-3 din dst bulake daru piyega boyfriend jaane ka baad aur disturb pura neighbour ko karega . Surprising thing yeh hai ki mera alg ek dst ka saamne wala neighbour ladki bhi esa hai . I live with my mom and sister because mom is currently posted here so bout ajib lgta hai . Yeh ladki ka parents ekbaar aaya tha basti seh , itna dukhi lg Gaya ham ulta dekke khane keliye hamlog ko bhi ladiya tha . As Iam a light sleeper , raat br ham nei soh paya hai . Iska gaoliya behaviour seh mera mummy hamlog tired hogaya .

For context we both have been dating for 10months . Had on and off about 2-3times (this doesn’t last more than 3days) . I caught him texting girls 2times before and when I broke up because of that , he started pleading and saying how much he loves me and stuff .

Now , we have not met for about 2months (we are 50km apart) . I confronted him that even if he gets free , he never come to meet me . He asked me to not repeat that again , then I again repeated the same thing today . He got angry and said we are not gonna last as I make him irritate a lot and he wants to get separate and that even my voice annoys him . I said sorry and then he asked me if we can talk tomorrow as he is getting irritated even by my voice .

He didn’t told any of his friends about me . Only one of his close friend knows that he got a gf but don’t know anything other than that . It’s not his first time doing this , he asked for breakup twice before and every time I agreed on this and broke up then came his long paragraphs after 2-3days (on and off ) . It would be helpful if I could get any advice .

TL;DR : bf threatens for breakup and then comes back again and Iam tired