u/Dependent_Acadia1772

I’ve been noticing a pattern about myself that I don’t really like.

Someone will tell me something important going on in their life, and in the moment I care. I listen. I mean to follow up.

But then I just… don’t.

Not because I don’t care. Just because life gets busy and it slips.

And then enough time passes where it feels awkward to reach out, so I don’t say anything at all.

A friend actually told me she stopped sharing things with me because I never followed up. That one stuck with me.

I don’t think I’m a bad person, but I also don’t think I’m showing up the way I want to.

I want to be better about this. I’m just not really sure how to actually fix it.

Has anyone here dealt with this or found something that helps?