AITA for asking my Mother in law to smoke outside while we are visiting
My mother and father in law live in a big house by themselves, and are heavy smokers, they smoke in the laundry room, but the the whole house smells like cigarette smoke
Recently i have been felling very uncomfortable visiting them because they smoke so much inside, and this affects me and my children, and all of our stuff smells so bad that everything (including bags and jackets) needs to be washed when we come home, also us and especially the kids hair smells like cigarette smoke when we have visited.
I am pregnant at the moment, and therefore I feel extra uncomfortable to visit their house.
I have been trying to get my husband to talk to his mom about this, and to ask if they could smoke outside while we are at their house, he has been very reluctant. And hasn't really wanted to talk about the issue.
We were invited to dinner, and after asking him to mention it to her for some time, I texted her myself asking politely if they could not smoke inside the house while we are there, she got really offended and rude, and told us not to come if we could not handle being inside their house.
Now I feel like an asshole and I guess need some advice....