u/DependentGap9126

I’ve been fat my whole like, and the only one of three who was overweight my whole life. My mother still at 26 makes comments to me about my weight. I ask in the most genuine way, when does it stop? I’ve told her I don’t like when she discusses my weight. Especially since she didn’t help with it as a kid and in comments and negative self talk inadvertently made me struggle deeply with my body and what I looked like. I genuinely like my body and self now but still cannot get past the comments because judgement like that to me seems to come from the wrong place and always at the wrong time. Recently I was invited to a wedding and I’m having a dress fitted and asked her to help me with pinning and the comments just made it so unbearable.